Cheating is wrong and no one deserves it. Being a person of doing the positive, I feel that infidelity should be frowned upon. If you're with someone you admire, like or love, why would you try and harm their feelings? It's possible that you want to be happy, but ruining their happiness isn't an option. So, the choice of cheating and not getting caught becomes a reality. This would refer to the saying, "What you don't know, won't hurt you." People cheat because they want that feeling of a new love/interest because they can't achieve those feelings with the person they're currently with. They also do not want to hurt the person they're with, so they do it with the hope of hiding it forever. Maybe those feelings you once had are gone now, but that's not a reason to cheat.
If the other person doesn't know about your sin, don't you still know? The question is whether you care enough to feel ashamed for cheating. It's possible that the positive feelings overpowers the negative feelings of cheating. It may make you feel alive, new and in that stage of having a first love, but that's not your reality. You will still be dealing with a negative situation and emotion after all that, and it's definitely going to urge you to feel the positive emotions again. Though, it's understandable that everyone needs to do what they want once in a while. Every person wants to do positive, but sometimes it is what's positive..for themselves and sometimes this means doing what you can to get that feeling, that happiness.
Yes, everyone hopes for happiness in life, even if cheating is the path to go. People do what they do to be happy themselves. There could be a woman who doesn't eat for days, just to save enough for her son's birthday present because she wants her son to be happy. But why? She wants her son to be happy because that is what makes her happy. It doesn't matter what you do, people do what they do for their own happiness.
Advertisements that encourage infidelity are trying to give you an option for happiness. The target audience for these types of advertisements are depressed young adults/adults in a relationship they prefer not to be in. In a sinful way, these advertisements are quite smart. They take a sensitive issue and they encourage you to put it on hold, while you look for happiness. As said earlier, people want to be happy.
Personally, cheating is not my kind of happiness. Infidelity hurts people and I prefer it wasn't used for an agency's benefit. Infidelity can cause divorce, but if not, a memory and hurt emotions that last forever. All advertisements encouraging infidelity motivates a person to act in a sinful way. If you aren't happy in a relationship, why don't you go separate ways? People who cheat will either get caught and/or feel awful about it and however you feel shouldn't matter to the situation anymore. Some people cheat to find happiness, but other people find happiness without cheating. So, why not find happiness the right way. Don't hurt people. Be kind to one another.
I feel upset whenever I see such advertisements. They all motivate the negative way to happiness..
..like these! These advertisements use words/lines such as secret and if they didn't get caught, this is telling you about bad effects coming from doing the bad.


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